Friday 26 August 2016

Do you know making an impression on a lady for her to fall for you is not as easy as it seems? It takes a lot of confidence and know-how to execute it successfully.

For some people, it’s a herculean task while for others, it’s a very normal everyday act.Whichever category you fall in, there are things you can do to impress a woman and have her fall in love with you. It’s just about knowing what to do, when to do it and how to do it.

Below are some tips on impressing that any woman.

1. Look And Feel Great
There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who looks and feels great. Your confidence goes through the roof once you look and feel great and trust me, the woman you’re interested in will see.Take time to groom yourself. Eat healthy, exercise, use nice colognes, make sure your clothes are on point and get your hair neatly done. These are all little things that go through the eyes of a woman and runs straight to her heart.

2. Use Every Opportunity To Showcase Your Abilities
We are all different people and we like and lovedifferent things. You might not know what your woman of interest likes, therefore, it’s important that you cease every opportunity to showcase your abilities when you’re with her. If you’re a good singer, invite her out to a karaoke bar and sing for her or sing some songs for her whiles she’s with you. If you are into sports, invite her to watch you play sometime. This is the way to make sure she knows your talent and if she finds it attractive.

3. Be Confident
I believe you’ve heard this several times. The reason your friend or that guy gets to chat and hang with all those high-class ladies is because he’s confident. There’s nothing more that puts women off than a timid man. You can’t win the heart of any lady by showing fear. Before approaching her, know exactly what you want to talk about, walk upright with your shoulders straight and offer a firm handshake. Let every word from your mouth exude confidence. Don’t stutter and don’t mince words.

4. Compliment Her
This is a bit tricky because too much of it will get you an opposite result from what you set out to obtain. When you meet her, compliment her on her looks and be sincere about it. If it’s her hair that you like, let her know. If it’s her shoe or herbracelet, focus on that and tell her so. Being general about your compliment will not do you any good so be specific so she sees that you’re totally focused on her and can notice little details about her look.If this is a woman you see quite often, then be meticulous about it. Don’t see her each time and compliment her, she’ll feel you’re not being sincere and she’ll begin to shun your company.

5. Surprise Her
Women love surprises and they feel attracted to a man who surprises them. You don’t need an expensive gift to surprise her and make an impression. Send her lunch at work, buy her cake, chocolate, perfume, bracelet etc. Nothing out of the ordinary, just everyday stuff and seehow she’ll appreciate it. Imagine sending her lunch one afternoon and catching her at a time when she’s really hungry but hasn’t been able to go out to eat. She’ll love and appreciate it.

6. Have A Sense Of Humor
Anybody who doesn’t laugh isn’t human. We all love to laugh and we love those who make us laugh. Women are happy-go people, they alwayswant to laugh and have fun therefore if you can give her that happiness and joy each time she finds herself with you, then you’re guaranteed a spot in her heart. This alone wouldn’t make her fall in love with you though but this added to your other qualities, will draw her to you like a magnet. Make her have a good laugh.

7. Be Honest
Don’t tell her you live in Trassaco or Regimanuel.Don’t borrow clothes or cars to impress her. Sit down and ask yourself, what happens when we start dating and she finds out I don’t own any of those? No matter what you do, make sure you’re open and honest with her. Women love honest people.

For men, the real hustle comes when you meet someone you do not know from Adam and you get attracted immediately. The task of going over to start a conversation becomes a real headache.

Below are tips you’ll need to approach a total female stranger.

1. Steal Glances At Her
Where ever you’re standing or sitting, make sure you have eye contact with her. Occasionally, glance over at her but don’t keep it locked, look away as soon as she notices you.You’re trying to catch her attention but you also want feedback before you move in for the kill and this is a perfect strategy. This gesture will arouse her curiosity and she’ll be forced to steal glances at you just to see if you’re still looking at her.

2. Look And Lock
So now you have her attention and she’s occasionally stealing glances at you, this is the perfect opportunity to lock that gaze in a couple of seconds. The move is to create sexual chemistry between you two before you move over so don’t look for too long, else you’ll end up making her nervous and this will not work in yourfavour. The trick is to make her more curious about you.

3.  Make Her Know That She’s On Your Mind
I know you’re asking, how? Ok, relax and listen, women enjoy attention and are flattered by it therefore, once you successfully execute #1 and #2, it’s time to let her know that she’s indeed captured your attention. So if you’re with your friends, appear distracted from your conversation with them. Appear out of focus with whatever you’re doing and make her feel that nothing matters to you at the moment apart from her.

4.  Flirt With A Smile
So now she gets the message and is responding with her own glances but we need to be really sure that she’s interested so flash her a little smile at this stage. It shouldn’t be a big grin, this will scare her. Just a smile that says “I like you” or “I’m feeling you”. If she returns your smile, it’s game time. This can be a very nervous moment for most guys and it’s understandable because you are not sure whether she’ll respond to your greeting when you go over, or even smile at you. But really, this shouldn’t be such an arduous task, it just needs you practicing a few pointers which we are going to make available to you right here. Approaching girls is something every guy must master because that’s the most important aspect of the dating game. So if you’re green or inexperienced in approaching girls, then sit tight and right to the end.

5. Head Over And Introduce Yourself
You’ve stated your interest and she looks interested too so keep your eye on her and head over. This is the moment you’ve been waiting for so don’t mess it up. Don’t be jittery, don’t appear shy, walk with an upright posture and keep your shoulders firm. Once you near her, offer your hand and introduce yourself. This is basically all you need to start talking to that stranger female you just met. If at any stage of these tips, she doesn’t reciprocate your gesture, you’ll have to abandone everything and look elsewhere.

Friday 19 August 2016

Touching African story

      A King had a male servant who, in all circumstances always said to him; My king, do not be discouraged because everything God does is perfect, no mistakes.One day, they went hunting and a wild animal attacked the king, the servant managed to kill the animal but couldn't prevent his majesty from losing a finger. Furious and without showing gratitude, the King said; if God was good, I would not have been attacked and lost one finger.The servant replied, 'despite all these things, I can only tell you that God is good and everything He does is perfect, He is never wrong'. Outraged by the response, the king ordered the arrest of his servant. While being taken to prison, he told the king again, God is Good & Perfect. Another day, the king left alone for another hunt and was captured by savages who use human beings for sacrifice.On the altar, the savages found out that the king didn't have one finger in place, he was released because he was considered not"complete" to be offered to the gods. On his return to the palace, he ordered the release of his servant and said; My friend, God was really good to me. I was almost killed but for lack of a single finger, I was let go. But I have a question; If God is so good, why did He allow me to put you in prison? His servant replied; My king, if I had not been put in prison, I would have gone with you, and would have been sacrificed, because I have no missing finger. Everything God does is perfect, He is never wrong. Often we complain about life, and the negative things that happen to us, forgetting that everything happens for a purpose. God knows why you are reading this message today, please bless someone with it by sharing it. God is good and perfect!!

Wednesday 10 August 2016

Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect

The mirror reflects reality, but it is also the perfect tool for deception: When you mirror your enemies, doing exactly as they do, they cannot figure out your strategy. The Mirror Effect mocks and humiliates them, making them overreact. By holding up a mirror to their psyches, you seduce them with the illusion that you share their values; by holding up a mirror to their actions, you teach them a lesson. Few can resist the power of Mirror Effect.

Preach the Need for Change, but Never Reform too much at Once

Everyone understands the need for change in the abstract, but on the day-to-day level people are creatures of habit. Too much innovation is traumatic, and will lead to revolt. If you are new to a position of power, or an outsider trying to build a power base, make a show of respecting the old way of doing things. If change is necessary, make it feel like a gentle improvement on the past.

Never appear too Perfect

Appearing better than others is always dangerous, but most dangerous of all is to appear to have no faults or weaknesses. Envy creates silent enemies. It is smart to occasionally display defects, and admit to harmless vices, in order to deflect envy and appear more human and approachable. Only gods and the dead can seem perfect with impunity.

Do not go Past the Mark you Aimed for; In Victory, Learn when to Stop

The moment of victory is often the moment of greatest peril. In the heat of victory, arrogance and overconfidence can push you past the goal you had aimed for, and by going too far, you make more enemies than you defeat. Do not allow success to go to your head. There is no substitute for strategy and careful planning. Set a goal, and when you reach it, stop.

Assume Formlessness

By taking a shape, by having a visible plan, you open yourself to attack. Instead of taking a form for your enemy to grasp, keep yourself adaptable and on the move. Accept the fact that nothing is certain and no law is fixed. The best way to protect yourself is to be as fluid and formless as water; never bet on stability or lasting order. Everything changes.

Avoid Stepping into a Great Man’s Shoes

What happens first always appears better and more original than what comes after. If you succeed a great man or have a famous parent, you will have to accomplish double their achievements to outshine them. Do not get lost in their shadow, or stuck in a past not of your own making: Establish your own name and identity by changing course. Slay the overbearing father, disparage his legacy, and gain power by shining in your own way.

Strike the Shepherd and the Sheep will Scatter

Trouble can often be traced to a single strong individual – the stirrer, the arrogant underling, the poisoned of goodwill. If you allow such people room to operate, others will succumb to their influence. Do not wait for the troubles they cause to multiply, do not try to negotiate with them – they are irredeemable. Neutralize their influence by isolating or banishing them. Strike at the source of the trouble and the sheep will scatter.

Work on the Hearts and Minds of Others

Coercion creates a reaction that will eventually work against you. You must seduce others into wanting to move in your direction. A person you have seduced becomes your loyal pawn. And the way to seduce others is to operate on their individual psychologies and weaknesses. Soften up the resistant by working on their emotions, playing on what they hold dear and what they fear. Ignore the hearts and minds of others and they will grow to hate you.